I am doing a little reflecting (soul searching) today and thinking deeply about the very positive happenings this week (sometimes I get in these moods).  I guess I cannot take all the credit for this reflection – it was actually spurred by a conversation I had with one of my assistants over the telephone.

As the owner of the firm, one thing I must do is listen intently to everyone without judgment – even if I disagree with what they are saying.  Then, I reflect, come to terms, and make decisions – because I operate my company with integrity, responsibility, fairness and professionalism – and I expect that those four characteristics are within everyone who works with me.  I want the best of the best from the people I work with – and I am satisfied with nothing less.  I am kind of hard that way.

Gay marriage is a hot button issue for me.  It’s one of the very few issues that will make or break a candidate in an election year.  It goes beyond professionalism and being a Smithie (which I am very proud of).  Actually, I’m not sure why it’s even an issue that I have to vote on.  For me, it’s about the very foundation of what this country is – Family, Love, Life, the Pursuit of happiness – for everyone.  Everyone has the right.

I could probably say this about a lot of things.

Anyhoo, I think it’s Murphy’s law that you have to fight to obtain the rights that are already afforded to you.  It’s happened time, and time again.  After you get them, you will have to fight many years to keep, enforce, and live a solemn life.

Because children should grow up in loving and happy families – I must say that I am extremely proud of DC for stepping up – and taking positive steps.  We are the model for what others should – and hopefully, will be.  Who knew it could and would happen in DC?  Call me a pessimist (lots of people do).

Happy reflecting!

Thanks to Kelly Prizel for this remarkable photograph.